Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, a
very popular book written by author John Gray. This book contains a lot of
suggestions for improving the relationship between men and women through
understanding the communication style and emotional needs of the opposite sex.
As the title implies, this book confirms the idea that men and women are very
different from creatures from other planets, and that learning the code of
conduct of the opposite sex is important even if the individual is not always
in accordance with stereotypical behavior. I will discuss chapter 3 that is.
Chapter 3: Men Go to Their Caves and Women
Talk
When faced with tough problems, men become
non-communicative so they can work out how best to help themselves, while women
become communicative so that others can work out how best to help them. Men
like to demonstrate their abilities by being allowed to solve problems without
interference; women like to demonstrate their feelings by being allowed to
relate problems without interference.When men do communicate, they like to get
to the point, and generally only want to listen if they feel the conversation
has a point; women enjoy talking for its own sake, and are happy to listen
unconditionally.
I think this is the most preferred chapter,
why? because here is explained how to communicate when having a problem with
our partner. here explained each woman and man has a different way of dealing
with problems in a relationship.
To feel better, Martians went into their
caves to solve their problems alone. To feel better, Venusians gather together
and openly discuss their difficulties. the point here is a man when he has a
problem he prefers to go and solve his own problems. whereas for a woman when
she has a problem she prefers to go with her friends to solve it openly.
Reference : www.wikisummaries.org/wiki/Men_Are_From_Mars,_Woman_Are_From_Venus
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